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- Can you synthesize luck? Formula for synthetic luck
Luck is just an oversized corn in a cornfield. Luck is not without reasons. This is something which we forget whenever we see a lucky person. Imagine your neighbor wins the lottery, and he became a millionaire overnight. You will think, why not me? I am always unlucky. But you forget the fact that you didn't buy a ticket. Anyone could buy a ticket, right? Anyone could go to a casino and win a jackpot, become lucky, if they are willing to bet a horse. As you can see luck doesn't happen automatically. There are series of things happen before luck, and this article is about them. What happens after luck? Imagine you win a lottery same time your neighbor wins a million. He buys some fancy car and a house by the beach and lives a lavish life for a while like Millers on the street. I bet his luck would run out after a while. To keep on living his dream, either he has to gamble away or steal. Compare this with you. You have only got 100000 dollars, and this is not enough for you to expend lavishly. So, you just ignore this, divide the sum into 20000 dollars and invest in 5 firms. Life just carries on normally. But each and every day you follow up your investments and see one is doing remarkably well, so you invest more of your money in it. After a decade suddenly the company you invest become a second "Apple company" and you would be named as this incredibly "Lucky" person who invested in the greatest company of 21st century. Nobody would be able to replicate your luck. But you know that was not entirely the story. Luck: Unsplash Luck is a retrospective label Life we live make sense only in retrospect. Connecting the dots and making a meaning out of it happens only at the end of it. There are plenty of small actions you can take every day, to change the course of your life in tiny amounts without worrying about goals and outcomes or even luck. You can call this the secret of success. And this is not a secret at all, in every culture, there is a concept about living life day by day. In Japan it is called Kisen, in Indian culture, it is written in Bhagavat Geeta, in modern world Mr. Beast talks about it in his Channel. So, how exactly are you able to create luck? What are the steps? Cornfield analogy. A cornfield is an empty opportunity. After each and every harvest, it will be just ground exposed. There is no luck of a harvest as there is nothing planted anymore. But if you start digging up the ground and there will be a lucky rain for you to start sawing some corn seeds. If you work every day and protect your garden these corn plants will grow and will blossom one day. And if you keep on caring for it, field will survive until they develop corn, and you might be lucky enough to witness the biggest corn you have ever seen in your life. When it does, your neighbor will say you have been lucky. But you will smile to yourself as it wasn't about luck. You just followed a lucky formula in a power law field, consistently. So, what is this synthetic luck formula? Formula for synthetic luck You get exposed to experience -> You are being aware and present to see opportunity -> Your mind interprets this as an opportunity -> You take necessary action -> You consistently take action without thinking about outcome -> Something Lucky happens. If we think about it, everyone gets lucky every day. Just some choose to doom scroll, and others try to improve their skills or enjoy a sunset instead.
- What is the Essential component of a co-operation? - Trust.
Folk tale of seven Merchants. Once upon a time there were seven merchants. They were carrying goods from place to place on their backs. They lived in seven villages nearby. One day they were on a quest, and tired of walking all day they met at an abandoned house by the road. As they knew each other, all were happy to see everyone else, and they were hungry. M1 : "Hmmm... what shall we cook today?" M2: "We can make a porridge for supper." M3: "We shouldn't cook separately, as we all know each other, we can cook in a one pot today." M4: "Yes, that is a good idea. That's easier and faster and more rational." So, they started cooking. And while the water was boiling, each one was supposed to put a handful of rice from their bags into the water. First merchant: "Ok I go first. This is my handful of rice." He put his hand into his bag and pretended to take a handful of rice and drop it in the pot. "This is my handful" he said it loud and clear. Second merchant: "This is my handful of rice." And did the same. Third Merchant: "This is mine!" went the third one, and everyone else followed. All of them one after the other shouted in the dark, making an empty fist and pretending they are putting rice into the pot. As you can see, this didn't work very well. Although each and every one tried to fool the other, there was no single handful of rice in the pot to cook. So, they all were ashamed of the end of it and went back to cook their own meals. Co-operation AI image Game Theory and Accountability: The essential component of co-operation Perhaps this is the oldest story about game theory. In game theory, the best outcomes arise when everyone is cooperative. However, in actual life, this is far from the truth. Not everyone cooperates with everyone else. Instead, they try to trick one another in cooking a porridge pot. They do not play a NICE game; instead, they try to cheat and win. To overcome this, you need to play a different tactic, or Tit for Tat game. You can be a nice player as long as the other party plays it nice, and there needs to be punishment for trying to cheat. And if they started playing nice again, you forget the grudge and play nice, so you both can have great outcomes again. Apart from the best strategy to play the game of life, this story tells us what glues a cooperation together, and it is TRUST. When there are circumstances where there is no transparency, trust will be broken. Transparency is the way to create trust. Most of the time, transparency is created inside a cooperation by law. When people do not adhere to them for their personal gains, that will generally start a cycle of doom. If there is no trust that a cooperation would meet your expectations, everyone will sell their shares and leave for a better place to start over. In life, it is always better to work with a few trustworthy people or do it alone than trying to build something with a thousand liars. And if people do understand the benefits, they would cooperate more. Especially if you're a CEO, your greatest asset would be your accountability built over the years, the essential component which holds the co-operation together. Trust if broken it is hard to gain back, like a broken glass. Maybe you should start doing something else than wasting time rebuilding it!
- Knowledge curve - Edge of the knowledge, and limits of the knowledge
Knowledge curve Imagine development of human communication. About 5000 years ago there were barely literate people. Very limited documentation, in the form of cave paintings, and clay plates. Even carvings on stone. It took few more millennia for humans to develop a system of written communication. Printing press was made 1450. But newspapers became into circulation in 1600s, Radio 1920, Television 1940 Internet 1980s Smartphone 2000. And communication is one of the fast-growing knowledge areas in human history. Can you see its growth is somewhat exponential by just looking at products we use to communicate we can see that. AI generated image of the knowledge curve Every field is advancing faster and faster. It is not smartphone; everything seems to be getting faster and faster. Every knowledgebase seems to be advancing faster simultaneously. Consider mathematics, consider chemistry, consider art and literature. There are more labs, more calculus classes and more artists than 20 years ago today. And they are vastly interconnected by smartphones, sharing knowledge, which have become a positive loop to drive the speed of the knowledge like a propelling rocket just out of atmosphere. Have you ever wondered how this is going to end? Is there unlimited knowledge? Will there be an ultimate answer to our all problems? Perhaps a M theory. Where do we stand today? Edge of the knowledge. Where we currently stand on this exponential knowledge curve is our edge. We can call this the edge of the knowledge. This is true for any domain. More and more scientists, artists and humans are working at the edge of the knowledge trying to expand it in a positive direction, every day. And it seems they are remarkably successful, in keeping the momentum. Like a group of hunting dogs, looking for new territories, they do discover something new every day. Co-operation is their tool, and paradoxes are their enemy. Limits of the knowledge and nothingness Paradoxes uncertainty principle and probability of truth. These are some of the hard problems that we have encountered along the way. Perhaps they make us humble to look at our knowledge base holistically. Will us ever reach the limit of our knowledge? Is there any meaning at this point? Consider the probability of truth. It is conventional wisdom that any truth is just a probability, quantum or not. So, there seems a limit for us to find 100% truth. As a species we can make more effort to reach higher speeds of knowledge by scientific method. But if we really want to jump into the asymptote of the knowledge we need entirely different approach. Perhaps the key is mindful awareness of the now function, which gives momentum to all these. There we might find "nothingness"
- Why being productive is a myth, and why awareness is the way of living.
Productivity is not what you think. Productivity is not when you work hard to produce lot of things valued by your boss. Productivity doesn't mean writing more articles, if you're a writer, or doing more paintings if you are an artist. It doesn't mean finding solutions to difficult math problem if you're a mathematician. All these things make sense in a real world to earn credit, recognition and many other things and they do push you towards positive outcomes and brief happiness. However, you will soon be back to your desk just to start another "Productive" task, unless you figure out what productivity means, you will burn your years being "productive". Being productive is a myth that we were taught to believe in. Pre-requisites for productivity. Even if you liked or not, even if you knew or did not, at the heart of productivity there is a belief, that life itself is some positive game, where you reach some, imaginary random number. So, we measure our productivity by a positive number. We evaluate lives of Charles Darvin, Leanardo da Vinci and Sir Issac Newton and call them productive lives. It is true what they did greatly changed the course of modern's civilization. However, where are all these productive people now? They all stopped being productive after being dead. From our perspective their lives are productive for "US". From their perspective, their lives stopped being productive after being dead. We can call this phenomena ground Zero of life, or contemplation on death. So productivity seems to be an illusion when we consider the finite nature of the life, from the perspective of the person. On the other hand, even if we agree there is value of life when one is not dead, the time he or she spend may be productive according to mental value they give to whatever the task they are doing. As human values are human made and only occur in specific human minds at specific times when they are brought into memory, we can give arbitrary values to anything we do. Being productive : AI image You can choose to be productive taking a sh..t early in the morning, humming your favorite song, if you give a mental value to it. If you chose to give less mental value to money, you could live a productive day just watching birds looking for worms in your backyard. You can be productive just sweeping the floors, while at home, looking at dust rising off the ground, being illuminated by the golden sunlight. You can be productive thinking about all the books you have read last year, and even reading the newspaper. As you can see, it is very easy to spend a productive day, as long as you choose to be just aware of what you are doing. Children do this all the time. Their days are full of productivity all day along! Being productive is a myth. Instead, be present. In life, there are no destinations to reach. It will stop just the way it started, without asking the owner whether it is right time. So, you have no choice on your birth or death. In between these two extremes, there will be a chaotic flow. Can you really call this productive? Whatever imaginary problem you try to solve day in and out I just see this a futile affair. Only productivity, if you really need a label to put somewhere, I will invite you to be aware. That's all we can do to live a happy, fulfilled day. In this sense following are productive lives. A driver is productive, if he is aware throughout his driving journey of the day. A fisherman is productive, if he is aware during his fishing trip, without wondering about the land. A trader is productive, if he is aware of his body and mind, during a day of trading. A student is productive, if he is watching films all day but knows what he is doing each and every moment during that time, and does it with a choice. A grandfather is productive if the stays home due to his painful knee, but just has a brief walk in the garden listening the sound of crickets. There is no rush, As there is no winner in this life, so walk in your own pace from zero to zero in any route of your choice is "PRODUCTIVE"
- A thing and a Place and a Tree - Lily White stories
Homework It was a rainy day. The sky was pouring down like it was sad for something, all afternoon. Lily White was watching the raindrops through her window all morning. And she started her homework in the afternoon. She was doing English homework. And she was filling a table of things and places, persons and animals. She had to choose which goes in which box. It was easy, could you do that if you were given? A tree: https://unsplash.com/@jmacca88 This is just a part of her list. Ant -> animal Uncle -> person School -> place bird -> animal chair -> thing monkey -> animal Rose -> thing Tree ? "Well, that is strange. I do not know whether a tree is a thing or a place?" So, she asked her father. "I see, it is easy Lily. A tree is a thing !" Father said. "But father, an ant lives their whole life on a tree, birds nest on a tree, I have seen some monkeys just having a nap the other day on top of the tree! It is a place for them, and it is my favourite place to be in the garden too." "hmmmm.. I cannot disagree, Perhaps it is both?" "So, which box should I put it in? the Thing box or Place box?" "Put it in the thing box" "But, that is wrong. If I put it in the thing box, I should also put it in the Place box" "Why this is so hard" "Ah poor Lily, don't think about it too much. Sometimes there are no correct answers to some questions. We just have to select one which seems right." "Why is that?" "Its because.. " "Its because..." "hmmm... They are just imaginary!" Hmmmm... Lily was thinking. "What did he mean by its imaginary?" She finished her work and thought about everything imaginary during all afternoon. And before bed, she put a note in her book. Lily White's diary -Imaginary things and places. Today I learned things can be places. If I imagine myself an ant, a tree will be a place. If I imagine myself a giant, our house will become a thing. Like my father said, it is all imaginary. Guess I am really good at imagining things and places. So, a tree is a thing just because I chose it to be.
- Living with corpses (failures) - how to bury them?
Morgue I have been to the morgue once or twice in my life. If that experience has taught me anything, it is not to visit it another time. So, I wouldn't do that voluntarily. The morgue is full of formalin and smelly corpses. People who owned these corpses while living may have led very successful lives, average lives, or poor-quality lives. However, now they all are dead, and the pile of carbon and oxygen atoms that they accumulated and recycled over the years is now struggling with the forces of nature to go back to their atomic form. Which they would just do if we did not interrupt the process with funeral arrangements. What do we not do to our corpses before they are given back to nature? We cut them open, remove everything inside, and keep the empty shell (just like we do when we are living). We dip them in formalin and cover all the intimate parts with new dresses (just to make them look like living). We spray substances to mask the fragrance, put them inside coffins of various sizes and shapes, decorate with flowers, and make them appear in neat positions of our preference before displaying. And once displayed, we get emotional over now dead lifeless piles of atoms and start crying over them. Some even start touching, hugging, and kissing corpses. (Well, I have seen that in movies perhaps.) But is this all necessary? Would you cry in front of a fallen tree? In a fundamental form, a dead body is a fallen tree. They need burial or even to be left alone to decompose. Humans are strange! Why magical? I used this metaphor to explain some facts to you. It is absolutely not regarding funerals, or that you should avoid embalming your loved ones, even yourself. That is up to you. I like cultural gatherings anyway, especially funerals as they provide a lot of emotional ventilation to the living crowd. However, I would say you have a lot of corpses, dead bodies in front and around your life, some partially decomposed and making your life stink. Do you have any regrets related to your past lately? Perhaps a traumatic childhood, a crime that you committed, or a deed that you omitted, which keeps coming back as insomnia at night. How about a dead relationship that you are trying to cling onto as you're afraid of a separation? What about an unsatisfying job that is eating your hours daily? Perhaps the boring city which doesn't inspire you to creativity is the problem. Have you ever thought about it? Where you live and how much effect it has on your current and future trajectory of your life? Everything about you will change if you just change the city you live in, like a paradigm shift. Dead bodies :https://unsplash.com/@supardisign How to live with corpses is by burying them. Even if you do not do anything the corpses would decompose naturally. It will be stinky for a few days and weeks, but if you neglect them, and pay attention to everything else happening in your life, they surely will decompose. What not to do is to EMBALM them, and trying to preserve them by mummifying, mourn over them for years. Dead is dead. A dead relationship is dead, there are no lessons, you just need to close that chapter and move on. A broken trust is broken; there is no need to fix the pieces of trust with super glue of tiny gifts until you become exhausted in the process drain all your time and energy. Yesterday is done and gone, even if it has not been so perfect as you wished, there is no need to dwell on it and re-live the experience. If you start doing that, you will miss the opportunity today, and might add another dead corpse to your pile of stinky corpses. Technically this is the hard part, burying the corpses. But I would say it is rather easy. YOU JUST STOP WORKING ON THEM ANYMORE. It is simple as that. And soon you will see that how much stinky pile of corpse you have been decorating daily and spraying scent on. Once you stop and ignore, initially it will be really nasty, and smelly but over time it will decompose faster. Better would be just focus on your gardens, where you plant your fruits and vegetables, and take care of them. Forgetting the failures accepting them as failures and moving on would be a life skill that we have to learn as professionals, CEOs, mothers and even children. Would you ever think any child would ever walk unless they accept the risk of falls and stopped crying about it, and try again? You have been that courageous child once in your life, who was excited about the future than your failures. I am sure you can do it again. So what are the corpses you have been embalming lately?
- Why I donated to World Food Program
I donated to world food program. I was just writing an article about how to live a virtuous life. And it was apparent to me this can only be done when I live my life for others. Not even the ones which are in close circle of mine. I can actually do this just now, with my computer. I can donate some of my hard-earned money to the world food program. So, I made a onetime donation of 18 USD. I know it virtually looks nothing. Yet I am feeling enormously happy than all the rest of the money I spend on myself. Impact of 18 USD. It says the 18 USD I provided is enough to provide 36 emergency meals. Isn't that wonderful? Someone somewhere in the world, gets a meal. Some water and a smile when they see the packet of food. I know it doesn't virtually transform into a meal and immediately handed over to a person, and I won't be there to see that. WFP is an enormous program with a big budget. They have provided 121 million people all around the world in 2025. They do have Supply chains, warehouses to store food and transport logistics and paid people working for them. My money is in the pool of 6 billion dollars, where they operate with. But ultimately will provide food to those who need. As I cannot reach a person in need physically and provide a meal, I am glad they have the system established. Singer's famine relief argument. If you do not know, there is a good reason that we should stick to a minimalist lifestyle and spend the savings on relief efforts such as world food program. Imagine a person dying of malnutrition in somewhere around the world. Am I not responsible for that death? Maybe not, because I do not think I am killing some people when I buy a car. However, it is really possible to save such lives when I am aware that there is a possibility for me to save money and spend it on saving lives instead. What better way is there other than providing food? Battle against poverty WFP is not a battle against poverty. That needs policy makers of each country to deal in a humanistic manner. WFP just feeds hungry lives which are immediately in danger. Worlds create enough food for everyone if distributed properly, nobody should go hungry. So, it reaches were food normally scarce. What can you do? Whenever you are spending, save some dollars. Put them in a jar, which reminds you of all the hungry children malnourished with pot bellies crying for food from their mothers who hadn't eaten for days. And do not even think twice when you feel like donating. Just do it. It doesn't matter there is a heaven or hell where we go. It's not about creating a equally good return. It is by all means not a good investment. But it will be the best investment of your life years and years after you have done it. The dollar you donate today when you are poor has more value to your life than a dollar you spend when you are rich. If you have a job, a roof and a shelter there is no reason you shouldn't donate. World food program - LINK
- Today, Man, Yesterday Man and Tomorrow Man
Today, Man The man woke up early morning, without feeling tired. He jumped out of the bed, as he could not stay there for a one minute. There was the piano waiting for him to play. Blank pages were ready on the table asking for him to compose. And he knew exactly what he was going to compose today, as it was already planned and written on a piece of paper. There was a Jug of water for him to drink, and an apple on his table to munch while working. All around was silence triggering his thoughts than any other. His mind could wonder into deep crevices of the brain to pick up memories and feelings he even did not know exist. Memories worth of decades about to be lost forever, he could recover and put on paper. He did not feel sleepy, as he had already slept a good deal. He had a sound sleep without any disturbances in a dimly lighted room. There were no phones and no screens, but few books he wanted to read, were already there with bookmarks. Books were specifically picked up to spark his creativity by the Yesterday Man. When he felt a little tired, and sleepy, he got up and walked. Planned his day, this time on paper. By the time when the neighborhood woke up, he was already getting ready to go to work in the cold autumn day. His blood was warm, heart was fresh, as inside he was feeling triumphed like an already winner. He knew not to expect any change of course of his life in immediate future. He did not even want that, as today was a totally perfect day thanks to yesterday, Man. Planning tomorrow today. :Unsplash Yesterday, Man Imagine that imaginary man was you. You may think, nah.. that is not me. It is not even possible. I have tried the trick you're talking about 1000 times in the past and failed. I agree if you told me you struggle with your dreams, and manifestations. There is not one single reason. But I bet ironically, there were 1000 reasons why you failed today. Demotivated, Depressed and too tired to feel and even move your butt out of your couch which had rooted onto the ground after years and years of wasted time. My advice is giving up today. Consider it already failed, before even it ends. Yet you can focus on tomorrow. In the above example, the man who woke up did not start his day from scratch. It was already planned, and half done. Everything, from his morning tea to exercise and snack, were no decisions for him to make. What he should compose was already written, by himself, during the previous day. He felt well rested, as he was granted with a good sleep by himself by going to bed early to have enough sleep. His bed was neat and ready, as he himself prepared the bed beforehand. As you can see, there really was an invisible man. But the invisible man was only "Yesterday himself". Won't you agree it is easier to wake up to a half-painted dream, so you can just carry on without any resistance? The fact is you can be your own invisible man today. Although we agreed today is a failure, at some point you need to turn your odds into success. Why not focus on tomorrow? How to be a tomorrow, Man Imagine yourself as three men. Your main goal for today is to anticipate every problem you are going to encounter tomorrow and make plans to overcome them. Not one, not two, but 1000 tiny plans that you make for 1000 obstacles. So, your routines are not to focus on today, but to let tomorrow flows smoothly. When it becomes tomorrow, which I am sure will happen, you would feel the presence of the invisible "Yesterday Man" by half done work for you. You just have to follow his paths and instructions. There is no room for self-doubts or hiccups of normal life, as these were already planned. There is no chance that you'd fail as yesterday man already failed and made today success possible. Once started, and finished your today's assignments, you can just be a tomorrow man. And repeat all those tiny things you have done to make it successful tomorrow. This would be far easier to do this time around as you know it is going to be a fantastic day tomorrow. Evident by today. Finally, you'd be able to break the cycle of modern man's doom, and step away from the clutter to craft your own future. Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. — Albert Einstein Never regret yesterday. Life is in you today and you make your tomorrow. — L. Ron Hubbard Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for. — Epicurus
- Why should you restart your hobby? 3 reasons.
3 Reasons: Highly accomplished people are serious hobbyists You already enjoy doing this Gives you more opportunities. Why should you restart your hobby? Yes. Nobel prize winners are highly accomplished people from all of the planet, and they are serious about their hobby. I will give you a list of such hobbies at the end of the paragraph. More importantly why? It could be due to the fact that, learning different domains of knowledge gives you an edge over others who are just having a tunnel vision on their own subject. Maybe the reason is a serious hobby lets your mind to relax like in a meditation, so it can wander deep into the memory and make new connections and hypothesis while doing that (diffuse mode of thinking.). Maybe hobby is a form of mental rest. As there is no pressure of achievement hobby teaches your life is not always about results. So, maybe you should too. Even if you do not win the Nobel price (it is a mathematically impossible task for everyone to win a Nobel price) you might enjoy little bit of your own music today, if you just remind yourself how important you felt just doing that. Albert Einstein — played the violin and piano, particularly enjoying Mozart. Richard Feynman — played drums, drew, cracked safes, and explored different crafts. Alexander Fleming — enjoyed painting as a hobby. Santiago Ramón y Cajal — was an accomplished artist as well as a scientist. Niels Bohr — was interested in philosophy and football. Rabindranath Tagore — wrote poetry, composed music, painted, and worked in many artistic fields; he won the Nobel Prize in Literature. Kenzaburō Ōe — had strong interests in literature, philosophy, and music. Hobby - reading Dictionary You already enjoy doing this. Play is an essential component in any progressive career. Sometimes you may be restricted by professional boundaries, where you can engage in play while you are at work. Although you have a creative idea, you may not be able to put it into action, as that is a new risk for the company you are working. Do this repeatedly you will lose your enthusiasm for life and opportunity to feel fulfillment. And the work will become boring, hence that is the only thing you are doing for all your adult life, life would be hard and everyone will be hearing your complaints. But with your hobby there is no restriction as such. You already enjoy doing the act. There is no performance anxiety, and there is no risk you shouldn't be taking as there are no rules when it comes to hobby. Any rule you follow is just yours to make and alter as necessary. If you would not know, this is an essential part of any skilled person. The hobby if you are serious can take off, if given enough momentum, like an aero plane. Once it is flying in the sky, you just have to relax and enjoy the sceneries rest of your flight as, long as you are up in the sky. It is when the flight tries to land there would be a crash not while it is in the sky in a smooth flow. Smiles that you create would fill over to other parts of your day. It gives you more opportunities. Imagine two people are climbing mountains. One is a professional climber, a sherpa. And the other one is a hobbyist. Both of them apparently climb the same mountain, same views and same atmosphere, same snow-covered caps rise all around them. Who would you think enjoy most? For the Sherpa, it is work. He is climbing with the responsibility, and this will drain all his mental power throughout the climb. He will have less chance for enjoyment as he is stressed just like a cleark in an office. But for you this is a novel experience and there is no pressure of performance. You will enjoy everything along the way. And this is not the only mountain you climb. Your family life, and your professional life are some other mountains you aim to climb simultaneously. Each will help you to have more opportunities which were not there, as always when you climb a mountain, a rock or even a big tree you will get a bird's eye view of everything surrounding you. You are less confused about destinations and directions you follow. Slowly your hobby will make your day more fulfilling, even if you do not score in your other domains. These are not the only 3 reasons, why should you restart your hobby. But the idea is to motivate you for a start, in few minutes.
- Boring cycle - What to do when you're bored?
Understanding Boredom. Have you ever come home after work, went to the kitchen, and opened the fridge only to find it's empty? You then return to mindlessly scrolling on your phone, and half an hour later, you find yourself back in the kitchen, opening the fridge door again. Which part of your brain didn't register that there's nothing interesting in there, first time around? Perhaps your mind was seeking something engaging, not food. Eventually, you'll do something to break this monotonous cycle. You might think it's abnormal to feel this way—lacking energy and feeling bored for an extended period. However, this is perfectly normal and physiological. It's as if your life is just a cycle of recurring boredom followed by quests. A pattern: Unsplash Boring cycle To find an answer to the question of what to do when you're bored, it's important to understand the cycle of boredom first. When the brain experiences low levels of stimulation, the mind begins to wander and becomes unfocused, leading to feelings of boredom. This wandering thinking mode takes you through tasks, memories, and images from the past, essentially taking a random walk through your memory bank. Once it discovers something rewarding, the mind sets out to recreate that experience. As you can see, this is a very basic and mundane pattern. You get out of bed and move like a zombie through the dining room to open the fridge. You either find something or nothing. Depending on what it encounters, the mind either feels temporarily delighted or temporarily experiences failure and sadness. This feeling will influence your emotions for the next few minutes. Over time, the mind gradually adapts to this sensation and forgets it, and guess what? It becomes bored again, starting a new quest. Sensory deprivation -> Boredom-> quest -> suffering to get it-> happy or sad-> adapt -> Sensory deprivation ->bored again So, what are you going to do when you are bored? As you can see, a boring cycle is almost automatic. You do not have a choice about what comes to your mind. Generally, a default thought that you had previously considered would trigger your next quest and stop the boredom. Yet, something interesting happens when your mind is out of options. Imagine instead you go outside your home and sit on a bench in a park. Here, the environment is different. Yet, your mind is looking for a fridge to open when it is bored on the bench. As there is no fridge, it gives up on this and is now left with nothing but to think about other things banked deep inside your brain, or in front of your eyes, making new connections, generating new ideas, and hypothesizing. And once it finds something very interesting, it will rise up from the bench. Without you even knowing it, you will be rushing out of the park to do the next task, as now the brain has picked up something to seek. Motivation is just aftermath of boredom. A lack of motivation or creativity during your day isn't an issue with your mind. It's a consequence of cutting off boredom too soon, before it can inspire more fulfilling thoughts. If you sit in a chair for half an hour, doing nothing but jotting down your thoughts with a pen and paper—without scrolling or repeatedly checking the fridge—your mind will naturally discover something rewarding to do. The paper in your hand would prove this. I suggest making this your next big experiment. Observe how creative and brilliant your mind becomes when it's truly bored.
- The Sea and the Sailor
The sea and the sailor - essay The sea was immense; it was so boundless that there was no end to it. People claimed there was no edge, that you couldn't sail beyond it. Even If you embarked on a journey with a ship stocked with dried fish, water, medicine and other essentials to survive, for months and years, still you would not reach the edge of the sea and would eventually have to turn back or perish in the vastness. The sea was so vast that such a ship is like an ant trying to conquer Sahara Desert, on bare foot, still the ant would not be able reach complete the journey it in its lifetime. A human with canteens of water filled on a back of a camel might barely be able to survive but the ant would scorch just a few feet from start of its journey, by the relentless sun and its sand melting heat. No one has ever made a map of the vast mighty sea. The sailor The sea was deep, so deep that even if a hundred British ships were stacked vertically, they wouldn't reach halfway to the bottom. No one knew its true depth. If you dropped a stone tied to a rope, it would never hit the bottom, and the weight might even drag the ship down. It's in these deep waters that the sea appeared calm on the surface, much like people deeply lost in thought who seem calm outwardly. It's like a focused athlete breathing slowly before delivering a powerful punch to a noisy opponent. These deep waters were the most turbulent when unleashing their power. When storms disturbed the surface, it was these depths that raised the highest waves, rivaling the Himalayas in size. The sea was lively and colorful, like a rose garden in the royal palace of a Roman emperor who conquered half the world to bring home the most vibrant and delicate roses, cared for by the best botanists, planted in their native soil, and nurtured to bloom in an unfamiliar setting for the prince's pleasure. The sea was teeming with schools of fish of various shapes and sizes, crustaceans, sea snakes, aquatic birds, reptiles, whales, dolphins, seals, penguins, seahorses, turtles, and octopuses. It was filled with plants, corals, rugged beaches, and smooth ones, with dangerous lion's mane jellyfish lurking to capture fish with their venomous tentacles. The sailor was wise; beyond his youth, he had a beard and curly grey hair. His forehead and cheeks were lined with wrinkles from the wind and toil of countless voyages. His hands were rough, his muscles as firm as bronze statues in a Greek city. His grip was strong and unwavering, able to hold on for hours without a twitch. He wasn't born this way; he was a gentle child shaped by the harsh paths he had traveled. His heart was heavy with regrets and the harsh punishments he endured for his life's actions and inactions. He loved the sea, evident from the faint smile that appeared around his eyes when the sea breeze touched his weathered cheeks. But the sailor was blind. His eyes, once fixed on the horizon he loved to watch, could no longer see the sun setting in the sky, and he had no hope of seeing it again. His days were filled with darkness, which only heightened his love for the sea in his mind, as there were no distractions from the sky. He could only envision the sea in his mind's eye. He knew its vastness, its depth, its vividness, not just from others' accounts but from years of experience. He could feel the breeze carrying the touch of its surface. He could hear the splashing water inviting him to swim. But he was on a ship, stranded in the middle of nowhere, yet it provided shelter. He knew he couldn't survive in the sea, even with sight, and now he was blind. The sailor was last seen on the upper deck, leaning against the railing one afternoon in the cold October dusk. A cold wind blew, and a thundering storm followed that night. He was never seen again, and he was forgotten within a week. People were content that he was gone.
- Creating the illusion of continuity in your life
Why do you feel disconnected from yesterday? Think about yesterday. What did you do? Did you plan some activities and did not follow through? Did you set your goals and could not achieve them? Does yesterday feels disconnected from today? Does every day feel like it is a new beginning and you cannot get over into a momentum and flow? There is good news, and that it is never your fault. All or non-neurons Why it is never your fault, is an important philosophy. That is due to the inherent nature of our mind. Human mind is dealing with binary data, yes, just like a computer CPU. Your mind runs through many impulses per day, even neurons in your brain follow an "All or non-law" And with these discrete experiences, brain tries to prepare a story for yesterday. As an example, what you think about yesterday is wrong. You just have few haphazard memory points in your brain as experiences. Trust me, these are very few of what happened and what you felt throughout the day. The problem is there is no way we can understand the continuity of yesterday, Other than by jumping back and forth within these data points. yesterday Tragedy of mind Tragic is unless you deliberately create chronological order and peg all your experiences in your brain it is unlikely that this happens naturally in your brain. Trust me there is a great importance in doing this. I know you like a messy desk and a mixed colors on your palate as it sparks your creativity. But meaningful work and meaning from work arise, when those chaotic experiences are streamlined. Why do you think most of the things made by humans run in rows and columns? Think about a vegetable plot, an assembly line, or chairs in a movie theater. Keeping the order against while the forces of nature (entropy) acts in opposite direction is not an easy task. But paradoxically it is very habit forming and also an easy task as you have been doing just that all day every day. You have done this before. If you played video games, had a chat in a WhatsApp messenger and Facebook. Even done some doom scrolling on your YouTube app. You have been creating the illusion of continuity by creating saved values. Saved value is what happens when each time you judge tiny thing as important and peg it with a like, a subscription and even an archive of messages. This archive of "Your" saved values act as an memory location which you cannot get rid of. Whenever you come back, they will, instantly create the illusion of continuity, feeling of familiarity and value. And this is the same method you should be using for your own creative endeavor. Creating the illusion of continuity in your life. Chose few projects you can come back repeatedly. A body of writing, painting, a garden, a personal philosophy discussion. And focus on the coming back habit. Whenever you return think "This is where I left off yesterday". Once you come back know exactly what you are doing during 20 following minutes. Something like 5 minutes for brainstorming, and 15 minutes of creative writing. Make sure you add to the saved value from yesterday, instead of starting new again today. Idea is to plant a seed in the brain which feels like it is growing day by day, not to plant a seed and not care for it. And go on planting another one. If you do that instead, you will never reap a crop. And once you finish, just relax and breathe and enjoy the feeling of continuity for a while before you fill your day with the rest of the things. This will create the continuity in your life, a fulfilling experience. I know this sounds a lot hard. Although it is 20 minutes, although it is a single task, there are lot more things you should be thinking about before you even start doing it. As your motivation and willpower after reading this article would not remain same, tomorrow. So, the task should be designed in such a way, that saved value is enough for you to return to it. Once you get the hang of how to do it, you can fill your day with tiny things which create continuously enjoyable day. As, what you did enjoy yesterday doing is certainly would make sense to repeat today, especially when you feel and notice something is growing. Few things you can try. Mandala technique Coming back habit. Commonplace book











